by ISaveMoney » Fri Dec 31, 2010 08:06:13 AM
I learned about saving money the hard way... for many years i would spend everything i had... i would roll quarters to buy beer.. i would look for change in the couch to buy pizza
i was a good spender
over a period of 2 years i had one thing after another go wrong for me
things around the house were breaking, i got sick for a few months, my mother passed away and i had to spend a few thousand for those expenses
all of this went on my credit cards. i had no money saved and then all of a sudden i had to fork out money for thousands of dollars of things
something clicked in my head and i said there's got to be a better way. while it was fun to spend like their was no tomorrow, i also didn't like being in over my head and having to pay credit card interest
i spent the next 5 years paying off all of my credit card debt, and saving up a few months worth of emergency funds... it literally took me that long. at first i couldn't see past my nose as far as planning goes.. i thought that 5 years was a long time.. i took each day one day at a time
it took the first year for me to stop spending everything i had and start to think about paying off my debt first.. i liked spending, but it took me the whole year to realize that saving and paying off should be a higher priority
long story short... these days i have more than enough saved for emergencies, i have a sizable retirement fund in place..
most importantly i learned how to budget my money and buy some things that i wanted, but now i'm disciplined to put money away..
it's also funny to note that now that i have money saved up and no debt, i don't crave as many things.. sometimes you want what you can't have.. well i can afford most things that i want, and i can make a choice whether i want to buy them or not.. that's the benefit of having money saved up
that's my success story.. i hope it helps others... it took me 15 + years to learn it!